Enable a scheme that uses partial ordering of buffer cache operations to allow metadata updates in FFS to happen asynchronously. For more details see ffs_softupdates(4).
In other words, enable softupdates on your ffs partitions.
option FFS_SOFTUPDATES
where <special> is the raw device of the partition you want to enable softupdates on. e.g. rwd0a
--pheezy.